Thanksgiving

Our word for the body of Christ and for the celebration of that sacrament (Eucharist) comes from a Greek word that means “praise and thanksgiving.” As we prepare to celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday, it’s a good reminder that we are called to constantly give thanks for our blessings.

At a time when the majority of the world’s population lives on less then $300 a year, even those of us who are poor in America are materially wealthy in comparison. So we can use this holiday to pause and remind ourselves of the many blessings we have. Some of these blessings are things we take for granted that many in our world can’t have: clean drinking water, a soft bed to sleep in, A/C units to keep us warm or cool, more than one set of clothing we can wear, indoor plumbing, and our health. Others may be more personal, tailored to each individual or each family.

Whatever the case, pause often this month and take the time to turn your thoughts to God in prayer, and thank God for the blessings and the tribulations that are part of our life. It will connect us to the saints and angels who surround God’s throne in heaven and continually offer him praise and thanksgiving.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo

Saint/Virtue of the Month: November

Each month at Our Lady of Sorrows is dedicated to a particular saint (generally chosen from the month) and virtue (generally taken from the fruits of the Spirit—Galatians 5:22-23, 2 Corinthians 6:6, Ephesians 5:9, and 2 Peter 1:5-7). The saint and virtue are incorporated into our morning prayer, religion bulletin boards, and religion classes. This focus on one saint and one virtue complements our Words of Wisdom, and serves as a supplement to our religion curriculum. This month we focus on St. Martin de Porres and the virtue of Generosity.

St. Martin was born in 1579 at Lima, Peru. He was born into impoverished circumstances as his father left his mother after his sister was born. He started working at the age of 12 to help support his family. At the age of 15 he asked to be taken in as a lay brother of the Dominican order, not feeling himself worthy to be a full religious brother.

Once in the order he spent many of his nights praying and doing penance, while his days were spent nursing the sick, caring for the poor, feeding the hungry, and even taking care of pets and homeless animals. His love and care extended to everyone, regardless of skin color, race, status or privilege.

St. Martin called himself a “poor slave” until the end of his life, even though he became the spiritual director of many of his fellow religious. To this day he is loved as the patron saint of African-Americans, race relations and social justice, among others.

Our virtue for the month is generosity. St. Martin is a perfect example of this, as he gave of his time, talents and resources to help as many people as he could. In our families we are challenged to be generous with patience, forgiveness, understanding and time. In our community we are challenged to be generous to individuals and institutions who need our help to help others. And in our personal life we are challenged to be generous to every individual who crosses our path, imitating Jesus is giving all that is asked of us for the greater glory of God and for the building up of the body of Christ.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo De La Rosa III

Faith & Family: November

Parents exercise their love for their children by caring for their physical, spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and moral needs. Concern for these needs takes much time and commitment on the part of both mother and father. (US Catholic Catechism for Adults, p. 378)

For most married couples, children are a natural part of starting a new family. Whereas at first a couple is intensely focused on each other, the birth of their first child (and any subsequent children) enlarges their sphere of concern to include these new family members.

Our Catechism reminds those of us who are parents (or who will one day be parents) that having children brings an immense responsibility to make sure that we do our very best in raising them. It puts emphasis on the amount of time that it takes to devotedly raise our children—time that we are challenged to sacrifice from other pursuits.

Practically, this means that no job, no volunteer organization, no hobby, no friends, not even our extended family members have the unique claim on our time that our children do. While grandparents, teachers, coaches, relatives and other adults can and should help us raise our children, the ultimate responsibility rests with us.

Raising our children encompasses all of the areas listed above—we are the primary religion teachers of our children, passing on our faith and morals through word and example. We are the primary socializers of our children, teaching them how to act and behave with others, both through our words and through our example. And we are the main caretakers of our children’s hearts and souls, nurturing their emotional and intellectual growth in appropriate ways, and sheltering them when they are young from the harsher elements in our world.

It is not an easy task. But it is part of our road to holiness, just as silence and simplicity are the road that religious travel on. God gives us this great gift of children to stretch us, while at the same time bringing us untold joy with their presence. [I tell parents of pre-teens and teens that they are growing in the same way and at the same time as their children. Adolescence is a time for the whole family to adjust, and sometimes it can just as hard on us as adults as on our kids. Roles are being redefined, teens are doing their developmentally appropriate task of pushing boundaries and asking questions, and parents are challenged to continue loving the young adults that are forming in front of their very eyes. The love will in some ways be the same as the love given to the newborn, toddler and elementary aged child, but in other ways it will have to change. Just as we don’t treat our 4th grade child like a toddler, we must also adjust to treating our pre-teens and teens in slightly different ways then our 4th graders. This becomes immensely important as they journey through high school, where we have four short years to teach them how to function as adults out on their own. No one said being a parent was easy :) But it is an immensely rewarding and challenging responsibility chosen by a couple and graciously gifted by God.]

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo De La Rosa III

Saint/Virtue of the Month: October

Each month at Our Lady of Sorrows is dedicated to a particular saint (generally chosen from the month) and virtue (generally taken from the fruits of the Spirit—Galatians 5:22-23, 2 Corinthians 6:6, Ephesians 5:9, and 2 Peter 1:5-7). The saint and virtue are incorporated into our morning prayer, religion bulletin boards, and religion classes. This focus on one saint and one virtue complements our Words of Wisdom, and serves as a supplement to our religion curriculum. This month we focus on St. Francis of Assisi and the virtue of Patience.

St. Francis is the patron saint of animals and the environment, but there is much more to Brother Francis then an ecological concern for our planet. One of his largest contributions to Catholicism was his desire to live his life as close to Jesus’ as possible.

He fell in love with Lady Poverty early on in life, so much so that even when he was living surrounded by his family’s wealth he had times in his life when he would go off alone to pray, or take everything he had on him and give it to someone who needed it more. He tried to radically live Jesus’ prohibition against putting our trust in stuff and instead trusting God (through the kindness of strangers and benefactors) to provide anything and everything he needed.

He was so patient with others that people marveled at him, and his humility and gentleness shone through to everyone he met, from beggar to world leader. He made his peace with life and death, so much so that he could talk about Sister Death gently and lovingly coming to lead him (and everyone else) into God’s presence.

Our virtue for the month is patience. In a world of fast food, instant messaging, streaming movies, disposable items, and sound bites that masquerade for news, patience is in short supply. Yet Jesus reminds us that no one can rush the growth of crops—it happens at its own pace. We are reminded this month to slow down, to savor the experiences of the moment, to marinate in the present instead of always looking to the future, and to let God unfold our lives as He sees fit.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo De La Rosa III

Faith & Family: October

Wives, be subject to your husbands as you are to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife just as Christ is the head of the church, the body of which he is the Savior. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." (Ephesians 5:22-31, abridged)

[Don’t you just love contentious Scriptural quotations?:)]

This particular part of Scripture speaks about the continuing relationship between a man and a woman who have celebrated the sacrament of Matrimony. They are to behave in mutually humble ways with each other, with the goal of mirroring the relationship between Christ Jesus glorified in heaven and the Body of Christ working out our salvation here on earth. What exactly is this relationship?

Jesus gives everything he has for us. His time, energy, and teaching was given to us while he was physically alive on earth. Ultimately he held nothing back, as even his very life was given to us as a gift. Even now he continues to intercede for us, to watch over us, and to give us an example of how fierce and passionate and humble and self-sacrificing love can be, all at once.

As the Body of Christ, we are called to follow Jesus’ example. But even more then that, we are called to willingly submit (make ourselves slaves, if we follow the Greek New Testament literally) to the demands that Jesus makes of us: sell everything you have, forgive everything, pray without ceasing, trust God in all things.

Being a husband or wife both demand sacrifice, but St. Paul gives us an example to follow: the mutual self-sacrifice of Christ for his people and of the Church for Christ. He gives us an example of the way marriage should be—not a partnership where each person gives 50/50, but a covenant where husband and wife agree to submit to each other, to love each other, to forgive each other, and to eventually become saints together in heaven.

[The rest of this is new material :)]

The church teaches that the sacrament of matrimony is a way to holiness. Our day to day actions are pathways we can take to make sure that everyone in our family eventually reaches heaven. For a husband and wife that necessarily involves sacrifice. It involves agape love – not the passionate sexual love that bonds a couple to each other (though it’s important and holy in it’s own right), but the willingness to do whatever is best for the other person. True love means putting our own needs, wants, emotions and desires aside at times so that we can choose the route that is best for our whole family, not just ourselves.

When St. Paul asks a wife and husband to submit and love, it is a command born of the love Jesus showed for us. May all of us who are in a committed relationship find the strength to truly love our partner as Christ loves us.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo De La Rosa III

Saint/Virtue of the Month: September

In a similar vein to my last post, our school chooses one saint and one virtue each month. This is a digital reprint of the article that appears in our newsletter. Enjoy :)

Each month at Our Lady of Sorrows is dedicated to a particular saint (generally chosen from the month) and virtue (generally taken from the fruits of the Spirit—Galatians 5:22-23, 2 Corinthians 6:6, Ephesians 5:9, and 2 Peter 1:5-7). The saint and virtue are incorporated into our morning prayer, religion bulletin boards, and religion classes. This focus on one saint and one virtue complements our Words of Wisdom, and serves as a supplement to our religion curriculum. This month we focus on the Archangels and the virtue of goodness.

According to Catholic teaching there are several choirs (ranks) of angels, divided into three hierarchies: Seraphim, Cherubim & Thrones; The Dominions, Virtues & Powers; Principalities, Archangels, and Angels. All angels are spiritual beings (they have no physical body) that have great wisdom, freedom, goodness and power. Archangels are under the guidance of St. Michael, and they are tasked with guarding over the church. Our personal guardian angels always watch over us as God commands as well. 

The archangels whose names we know from Scripture (and who form the basis of the Feast day for the Archangels) are St. Gabriel (Book of Daniel, Luke’s Gospel), St. Michael (Book of Daniel and Book of Revelation), and St. Raphael (Book of Tobit). All angels are messengers of God, but these three have specific roles in Scripture: Michael protects; Gabriel announces; Raphael guides.

This month, then, can be used to remind ourselves that God’s protection, wisdom and guidance are always accessible to us in the form of angels who surround us, our world, and our entire universe. Children especially can be taught to call upon their guardian angel in times of need, and everyone can add the petition to St. Michael to their repertoire of prayers.

The virtue of goodness flows through our angelic guides—as messengers who mediate the presence of our all-good God they bring God’s goodness with them wherever they go. We are challenged to live our lives in such a way that we, too, become mirrors that reflect the goodness of God through our actions.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo De La Rosa III

Faith & Family (September Column)

I’m writing a small monthly column for our school newsletter. I’ll be plagiarizing (and maybe expanding/editing/commenting on) those columns for my blog :) Small changes/edits will look normal. Longer edits will be demarcated for your reading pleasure.

Marriage and family are ordered to the good of the spouses and to the procreation and education of children. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 2201)

A basic human experience is that of two people meeting, dating, falling in love, getting engaged, and getting married. It’s the seed from which all families sprout, and, as our Catechism teaches, it is a good thing [sheesh – I sound like Martha Stewart!]. Since marriage is the basis of the family in Catholic teaching, we’ll look at how the Catholic faith approaches marriage in this first column on the family.

Marriage is between one man and one woman. It unites a couple in faithful and mutual love and service [as a lengthy aside, I’d like to pontificate on the fact that love and service go hand-in-hand. “Falling in love,” that rush of emotions that heralds the beginning of a potential relationship, is but the first phase of a life-long relationship. Just as we expect different behaviors from 5th graders and 5  year olds, or 40 year olds and teenagers, we should expect a relationship to grow and change, not stay exactly the same. People who get married and then complain that they have “fallen out of love” probably never took the time to really get to know themselves and their potential spouse. That first blush of overwhelming emotions will settle down, and if that’s all there ever was between a couple they should never have gotten married in the first place.] Husband and wife are called by God to this vocation—this state of graced living—as a way of becoming holy, as a means to bring new life to the world, and as a challenge to be a sign of Christ’s life in and for the world. [Lenghty aside #2: A married couple’s road to sanctity – to holiness – is through the normal ups and downs of married life. Everything we do – from changing diapers, to taking care of each other when one is sick, to doing the laundry, to going on vacation, to simply sitting and watching TV together – everything is a potential vehicle for grace (God’s life, love and creative energy) to enter more fully into each person individually and into the family as a whole]

That’s a pretty big job description! So the Church provides resources to make sure that each married couple can weather the storms that inevitably crop up. During the engagement period, couples are asked to meet with more experienced married couples from their parish to take a pre-marriage relationship inventory and talk about the results. The inventory asks questions related to finances, children, intimacy, family, etc.—the goal is to make sure that a couple has talked openly about all areas of their relationship before deciding to commit to the sacrament. [Personal aside: It was great doing this with my wife. We had done out best to talk about lots of things before beginning this process, but it was still incredibly humbling to find that there were areas where we just didn’t agree, or areas we hadn’t even thought of. Being able to sit down with our great sponsor couple (thanks Lydia and Morris!) and talk over the areas where our results didn’t match up really helped us cement our relationship and more fully prepare us for the great adventure of marriage!]

In order to strengthen the bond between husband and wife after marriage the church encourages participation in retreats, workshops, Mass, and small groups. Date nights, time alone, shared interests and time spent with other adults are also ways to keep a strong marriage bond. [It’s instructive to remember that your spouse is not supposed to be your only point of contact with the outside world. Even for introverts like my wife and I (thank God our son, while not as introverted as us, is still on our side of the field!), there are times when we are apart with friends or extended family. Being able to experience things separately, and then bringing those disparate experiences back into the relationship, helps to strengthen the bonds of love and trust. Time together is great, but time apart is needed as well!]

In keeping that bond strong, a couple gives to their kids and all of their acquaintances a great gift—a strong, Christian example of what a loving, sacrificing, servant-oriented love can look like. [Again I’d stress that a relationship built primarily upon physical attributes, excessive emotions, and/or sexuality is going to quickly burn out. Tempering that “falling in love” euphoria with a selfless, sacrificial, servant-oriented mentality towards your partner is, as far as I can tell, the best way to keep a relationship life-giving over time.] They participate in and reflect the kind of love that Jesus has for us. And in doing so, they provide their kids with an example to follow, and a safe place in which to grow up and explore the wider world.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo

Happy All Hallow’s Eve

“Hallow” is an old word for “holy” (it’s used that way in the Our Father); “e’en” is a contraction for “evening.” Our word “Halloween” is thus a shortened form of “All Hallow’s Eve.” If you’ve ever wondered if we should “celebrate” Halloween . . . read on! :)

In the mid-4th century a feast for all the martyrs was established to celebrate those untold people who had witnessed to their faith by dying for it (being thrown to hungry lions, set on fire, etc.). This feast was for all of the hallowed (holy) men and women who gave their life for Christ.

Pope Gregory III moved this feast of All Saint’s from May 13 to November 1 to commemorate the dedication of All Saints Chapel in St. Peter’s in Rome in 731. In 835 Pope Gregory IV made it a feast for the entire church [which ended up deciding the date of Halloween (All Hallow’s Eve – the day before All Saints) as October 31]. Thus our day of Halloween comes about because of a historical accident (and a churchy one at that!), rather than as some sort of planned celebration of “the occult” or “paganism” or “insert bad/evil-sounding reason here.” :)

In 998, St. Odilo (in France) added a celebration on November 2 for All Soul’s Day – a day to pray for all those who had died but were not martyrs or saints. This feast spread throughout Europe rather rapidly. All Hallow’s Eve thus became a vigil evening for two celebrations of those who have (hopefully) entered into heavenly glory before us.

Fast forward a bit - in the 14 & 15 centuries thousands died of the black plague in Europe. As a way of reminding people that death could come at any moment, people started wearing “spooky” costumes on All Soul’s day as a reminder of their mortality. People also started to dress up for the “dance of death” or “the dance macabre” – a form of morality play that reminded people, once again, that if they were not prepared for death (through prayer, sacramental celebrations, etc.) they could end up in a very scary place indeed! So our current custom of dressing up for Halloween (especially in scary and gory costumes) comes from a very Catholic root – the desire for people to turn away from sin and follow Jesus. But what about trick or treating some might ask?

During the 1500-1700’s English Catholics were treated very badly. Some Catholics hatched a plan to blow up parliament and kill King James I on November 5. The plan didn’t go as well as planned, and a Catholic by the name of Guy Fawkes was caught and killed. This became Guy Fawkes Day in England, a day when Protestants would visit Catholic homes and demand beer and cake – trick or treat! :)

Paired with this was a belief popular in the Middle Ages that those who had died the previous year without being reconciled to you would come back to haunt you. Their spirits were supposed to jar you into praying for them and offering them your forgiveness. A trick or treat from beyond the grave!

Guy Fawkes day arrived with the settlers here in America, and eventually the festival was moved to Oct 31 (to coincide with the day of the Irish-French Dance of Death mentioned above).

Halloween as we know it now thus became a part of our cultural celebrations here in America in the 1800’s, but it’s roots go back to early Church decisions about feast days, morality plays about following Jesus, and even Christian infighting! I’d like to reiterate that the day of Halloween is a historical accident – if All Saints Chapel had been dedicated on another day, if the Dance Macabre was held on a different day, if the settler’s had decided not to move Guy Fawkes day – our celebration of All Hallow’s Eve would be on a totally different day.

As a side note, adults tend to shy away from gory or gruesome costumes, but historically Halloween was partly about our own mortality – hence the skulls, skeletons, jack-o-lanterns and spooky costumes; and witches, demons and devils can remind us that Christ has conquered sin and death – there is nothing for us to be afraid of anymore!

May your celebration of All Hallow’s Eve, All Saints and All Souls be hallowed indeed!

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo

These Are A Few of My Favorite Things

I love watching movies (as you can see here), and a two weeks ago I started a trial Netflix membership. [The post won’t be about Netflix, but I do have to say – I’m loving it. It’s a one month trial, and we can have one DVD at a time. The real win for me, though, is that we can watch tons of movies straight from their site (not all, but quite a bit), and we can also stream the movies through our Wii onto our TV. God is good!] [As a second aside, I’ve rated 685 movies that I’ve seen on Netflix. I may need help :)]

I also just recently found a blog by Robert Gelinas (the Jazz Theologian) – in one of his posts he lists his top 15 favorite movies of all times, so I am blatantly stealing the idea and posting mine. This is a list of movies I’ve seen that I would buy and watch over and over again. If I was stranded on a deserted island (along with a nice big screen, DVD player, and electricity, of course) . . . . these are the movies I would have (in no particular order):

1. The Lord of the Rings Trilogy – I loved reading and re-reading the books, and the movies are ones I can watch over and over again as well. I love the scenery, the fantasy, and the conflict of good and evil.
2. The Star Wars movies – except for the horrible fiasco that was the romance scenes between Anikin and Amidala, these films will always hold a special place in my heart. I loved the originals as a kid, and I loved the newer ones as an adult. And I love the way “May the Force be with you” sounds so, so Catholic :)
3. The Matrix Trilogy – the first film is my favorite. I have wonderful memories of watching this movie with my youngest brother and being blown away by the first scene, then being blown away again with the training sequence fight. Wire-fu at it’s finest :)
4. Oscar – if you’ve never seen this comedy starting Sylvester Stallone and a whole host of other famous faces, go rent it now. One of the few comedies that my wife loves to watch (our humor tends to run in different directions!).
5. The Princess Bride – I fell in love with this movie when I first saw it, and it was one of the first DVD’s I ever purchased. A romantic fantasy/comedy/buddy movie that is intelligent and warm hearted. I love it :)
6. A Knight’s Tale – Fantasy again (see a trend?) with a touch of comedy – I loved the juxtaposition of modern music and sensibilites with the medieval trappings of jousting tournaments and politics. It helps that good triumphs over evil as well :)
7. A Man for All Seasons – an older movie that I first saw in High School. It made an impression on me seeing St. Thomas More standing up for his beliefs with passion, courage and intellect.
8. Romero – same as above. He has been a hero for me ever since I saw the movie and learned more about his life.
9. Luther
10. What Dreams May Come – this movie still evokes deep emotions when I watch it. A tale of love, loss and redemption.
11. Meet Joe Black – I saw this movie around the same time as #10. It tells the tale of Death becoming human to experience what human life is like. It gives an innocent’s take on the everyday blessings we tend to take for granted, and is a reminder to cherish the gift of life while we have it.
12. My Cousin Vinny – I love the courtroom drama, the relationship drama (“And your [stomp, stomp] biological clock is ticking!”), and the relationship between lawyer and judge.
13. Office Space – I recommended this movie to our former Assistant Principal, not knowing that the soundtrack to the movie was so peppered with . . . colorful words :) (I had only ever seen it on network TV before that!) I love the nonchalant way that the main character approaches life for the better part of the movie, and the way it subtly parodies modern life and our preoccupation with status, wealth, and control.
14. Schindler’s List – the conversion and courage of one human is front and center in this drama that makes me remember that one candle is better then cursing the darkness.
15. A Tale of Two Sisters – The only horror/thriller on here, it’s a twisted tale (not for kids or the faint of heart) that will have you watching it again after you see the ending.

And that’s my list :) There are many other movies that I enjoy watching (the whole genre of stupid parodies [Airplane, Hot Shots, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, Top Secret, etc. comes to mind!], but if I was limited to fifteen, I could live well with this collection here.

What about you?

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo 

Sanctuary III

The third and final installment of the history of my current WOW guild (Sanctuary on Terokkar/US).

A joined the guild Gypsies (which is still active on the realm), and then tried Lightbringers (not sure if they’re still active or not), all the while keeping in touch with several people from the Stormwind Justicars and others who I’d met in game. After a few months of feeling homeless, I started talking to a few people about starting a new guild for those of us who wanted to play together more often. I remember brainstorming names for the guild (which seemed to take forever) and the brainstorming ranks (which seemed to take longer, and with which I still tinker from time to time). Finally, right on New Year’s Eve of 2007 Sanctuary was formed.

I had a few guild signatures that I got right away, and I remember advertising for a few signatures to flesh out our initial roster. I had to field many “how much gold will I get paid” questions, answering them all with “this will be a permanent guild, and if you sign I’d appreciate you staying in and giving us a try.” After a while we had our required signatures and the guild was born.

Initially I envisioned a leveling / social guild, and I spent lots of time talking in guild chat and recruiting for new members. However, being an introvert in real life, this soon got very hard for me to handle alone. Most of the original signers of the charter were made officers, and they helped immensely in organizing the guild at that point. Many of the activities I enjoy doing now were started in that initial period, like naked instance runs, hide and seek, and guild parties (with pictures and give a ways). I just remembered, too, running low level instances for loot to put into out freshly created guild bank :)

Currently I see us as a family-friendly social / casual raiding guild. We have a large population of 80’s that run heroics daily and a raid night or two each week (we just finished the first wing of ICC on our first guild try!). I’ve met many good people in game, and some of those friendships have moved into facebook / email territory. My son is in the guild, and it’s great getting to spend time with him like that. It’s hard to believe that we’ve been around for 2 1/2 years, but I have wonderful memories of the game, and I look forward to creating many more memories as we look forward to the coming Cataclysm.

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo

Sanctuary Part II

My students are looking up homework on my blog (for the Poverty Project unit we’re on) and one of them asked me why I had stopped posting. I truthfully answered laziness :) I figured it was setting a bad example . . . so here I go again with a new post – continuing my history of my WOW Guild, Sanctuary.

A few days after I started playing, I player named Kathorian invited me to join his newly formed guild, The Stormwind Justicars. Not knowing much about how guilds worked, and looking to meet some new people, I accepted his invitation. I had met another player named Cometdraven while we were questing in the same area, and it turned out she was in the guild as well. So my very first WOW friends were made, soon followed by Revelatio, Kennethwc, Kimmie, Nadonii, and more.

(Aside: Cometdraven created several other toons, and had her own guild for a while, but soon moved off server. Kathorian stopped playing for a while, came back, but has now been AFK for about a year. His character, however, is still in my current guild. Kennethwc has his own guild on our server [Myth], Revelatio has his own guild as well [can’t think of the name just now!], Kimmie is no longer playing as far as I know, and Nadonii and her husband Jimthefierce are in the guild but inactive at the moment.)

The guild grew slowly, and we quested together quite a bit. I still remember my very first run through Deadmines – it must have taken about two hours for the five of us to go through. I learned quite a bit that night about aggro, tabbing to target mobs, and the importance of always letting the tank hit first! :) But I remember as well the feelings of companionship and fun as we wiped because three of us in there were brand new to the game. :)

The guild continued to grow. We eventually transferred Term’s toon Searspan to Terokkar, and a real life friend (Milton) joined in as well. It was fun taking turns with Term playing on one account, but it was around this time that we got a separate account so we could both play at once.

All was going well until Kathorian had to distance himself from the game due to real life reasons. At first it wasn’t too bad, but as his absence stretched out, people began leaving the guild. I stuck it out for a while, but by this time many people had hit 70 and were looking to raid and/or run heroics. So it was with a heavy heart that one evening I /gquit The Justicars. :(

To be continued . . .

Blessings & Peace,
Hugo / D / Anarius (depending on who’s reading this and how I know you!) :)

Finding A Job - Poverty Project

Click here to go to my blog page that lists different job-finding resources. Follow the instructions on that post. :)

Blessings & Peace,
D

Desired Lifestyle Budget

Go here and you'll get your instructions :)

Blessings & Peace,
D :)

Poverty Project - Looking for Food

You may check the following sites to find prices for food for your family of three. You may also look around at any other food sites, but you'll need to list the sites you used on your paper.

Amazon
HEB
Kroger's
Target
Wal-Mart

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Blessings & Peace,
Hugo (Mr. D) :)

Sanctuary

Xero asked me to post a history of Sanctuary. I figured I’d do it here instead of on our website, as I’m used to typing extensively on Windows Live Writer. I’ll begin with the story of how Term and I started to play WOW. Here we go :)

My son (Term) started playing WOW in June of 2008. A classmate of his was playing, and he created a character on that realm (I can’t remember which one, though I remember it was a PvP realm). His friend was higher level, though, and Term found it hard to keep up with him. So he continued to play and level, mostly on his own. He asked me a few times to try it, but I was playing Neverwinter Nights (both solo and with some friends), and I really didn’t want to try a new game.

One Saturday in late June/early July my wife and son were gone, and I decided to give the game a try. I rolled a human Mage on the recommended server (Terokkar) and proceeded to die over and over again. :) I did not know how spells/abilities worked, I had no idea how mana came and went, and I had lots of trouble actually facing mobs to kill them.

So I logged out, read up on the game a bit, and decided to roll a human Paladin (I liked the description of their gameplay and abilities). Several hours later, when my wife and son got home, I was still playing - Term was overjoyed. :)

We shared an account at that point, with Term and I taking turns playing. He continued to play on his realm, and me on mine.

Tomorrow: the story continues :)

Blessings & Peace
Hugo / Anarius